Reviewed by: Assel Omarova, MD, psychiatrist and addiction specialist · updated 6 Nov 2026
Key facts
- Who provides care
- a psychotherapist or addiction specialist; a narcologist joins at the treatment planning stage
- Format
- online sessions with the family for preparation; the conversation with the person with the addiction takes place in person or by video
- Duration
- preparation takes 1–3 sessions of 60 minutes; the intervention itself usually lasts 1–2 hours
- Confidentiality
- confidential, no registration with the state registry; information is protected under the laws of the Republic of Kazakhstan
- When it's an emergency
- overdose, psychosis, threats to self or others, a severe binge — call 103 or 112
- Outcome
- agreement to a consultation or treatment, or a clear plan for the family's next step
What you should know
“He says he can quit any time he wants,” “she gets offended the moment we mention doctors” — most requests start with phrases like these. Here is how it works: you message us on WhatsApp, describe the situation in a few words, and on the same or the next day an addiction specialist joins a video call with the family. The first session takes place without the person with the addiction: we find out what has already been tried, which relatives have influence over the person, which topics trigger an explosion and which ones bring a willingness to listen.
Preparing online is convenient for large families, who in Almaty are often scattered across different districts — someone in Medeu, someone in Alatau, and a brother all the way out in Konaev. Getting everyone around one table is hard, but joining a video call is realistic. Psychiatry Online helps plan the conversation so that it does not turn into a quarrel or a trial but ends with a concrete offer: a consultation with a narcologist, a doctor's home visit, choosing a hospital or a rehabilitation program.
When a Family Needs Help Motivating a Loved One
- the person denies the problem, even though substance use is clearly damaging their health and relationships
- every attempt to talk about treatment ends in a fight or hurt feelings
- promises to “quit tomorrow” are repeated for months and never kept
- you have already tried persuasion, threats and ultimatums, but nothing has changed
- the situation is getting worse: debts, problems at work, drunk or impaired driving
- the family is divided: some feel sorry for the person and cover for them, others demand tough measures
- your loved one sometimes says they want to change but doesn't know where to start
If heavy drinking has lasted more than two or three days, or there is shaking, vomiting, blood-pressure spikes or insomnia, you need a doctor rather than stopping alone. An online consultation is free and helps assess the risks before a visit. For seizures, confusion or hallucinations call 103 or 112.
Why People with Addiction Refuse Treatment
Denial is not stubbornness or lying in the usual sense. It is a psychological defense that helps a person avoid facing the painful truth about having lost control. Shame, fear of exposure, of being put on the state registry and of losing their job also play a role, as does the experience of past failed attempts. In addition, addiction changes how the brain works, so that the short-term relief from using seems more important than the long-term harm.
Motivation is not simply “there” or “not there” — it fluctuates, and it can be influenced. The stages of change model describes the path from not recognizing the problem to contemplation, preparation and action. Motivational interviewing and family training programs used in international practice show that a calm, supportive and consistent approach leads people to seek help more often than pressure and confrontation do.
How Preparation and Intervention Work Online
Sessions take place on Zoom or WhatsApp, and several relatives can join from different places. The specialist helps each person put into words what they want to say: specific incidents, their own feelings and a request to accept treatment — without accusations or labels. You agree in advance on what you will offer if the person says yes and what you will do if they refuse. The conversation itself can take place by video, if the person agrees to join, or in person with the specialist present.
An online intervention is not appropriate if the person is currently heavily intoxicated, in the middle of a binge or in psychosis — they first need to be stabilized: a narcologist's home visit, or 103 or 112 if there are dangerous symptoms. We cannot forcibly bring a person to treatment: involuntary care is possible only in the cases and in the manner provided for by the laws of Kazakhstan. If there is a risk of violence, the family's safety comes before any conversation.
How we help
Family consultation
At the first session, the specialist learns the history of substance use, the roles of the relatives and how past conversations went. The family comes to understand what reinforces denial and what helps, and begins to change its habitual reactions — no more covering up, giving money or holding late-night interrogations. Sometimes these changes alone are enough for the person to start talking about getting help on their own.
Motivational interviewing
If the person with the addiction is willing to talk with a specialist, motivational interviewing is used — a method in which the doctor does not argue or try to convince but helps the person see for themselves the conflict between their substance use and their own values. This reduces resistance and increases readiness for a first step, such as a consultation with a narcologist.
Structured intervention
This is a carefully prepared meeting between loved ones and the person with the addiction. Each person talks about their feelings and specific incidents, expresses love and care, and asks the person to accept help. It ends with a concrete offer: a consultation today, a doctor's home visit, a place in a hospital. The specialist makes sure the conversation stays calm and respectful.
Support after the conversation
If the person agrees, a narcologist gets involved the same day: an online consultation, a home visit or arranging hospital admission. If they refuse, the family is not left alone: consultations continue, boundaries are maintained, and after a while the conversation can be repeated. Motivation often takes time to mature.
Myths and facts
MythUntil a person hits “rock bottom,” they won't want treatment
FactWaiting for “rock bottom” is dangerous: it can mean serious consequences for health and even life. Motivation can be built earlier, and changes in the family's behavior combined with a calm conversation often lead a person to seek help long before disaster strikes.
MythAn intervention means forcing someone into treatment
FactA professional intervention is based on respect and care, without violence, deception or humiliation. The goal is to offer help, not to force it. Coercion is possible only within the law of the Republic of Kazakhstan and has nothing to do with motivational work.
MythIf they refuse, it was all for nothing
FactEven a refusal is often a step forward: the person has heard that the family knows about the problem and is ready to support treatment. Many agree later. The key is to keep the boundaries and continue working with the family.
How an online appointment works
- Message or callWrite on WhatsApp or call — our coordinator replies within minutes, day or night. You don't have to give your surname.
- Doctor and timeWe match you with a psychiatrist, addiction specialist or psychotherapist and agree on a time — often the same day.
- Video consultationA secure 50–60 minute video call: the doctor takes a detailed history and uses standardised scales if needed.
- Treatment planYou receive a clear summary, recommendations and a plan: what we do online and what needs an in-person visit or home call.
- Follow-upOnline follow-up sessions, messenger contact with your doctor, and treatment adjustments until you get a stable result.
Prices in Almaty
| Online addiction specialist consultation | 12 000 ₸ |
| Online consultation for relatives | 12 000 ₸ |
| Addiction specialist home visit | 40 000 ₸ |
The final cost is agreed before treatment starts. Prices are in tenge and do not constitute a public offer.
Where to get help
Psychiatry Online in Almaty: same-day video appointments and two branches for in-person visits — 129 Kurmangazy St., office 8, Almaty and 110 Bogenbay batyra St., office 15, Almaty. Our mobile team works around the clock: all city districts and nearby settlements. If you live elsewhere in Almaty and Almaty Region, starting online is usually easiest.
Confidential and private
Information about your visit, diagnosis and treatment is protected by medical confidentiality under the Code of the Republic of Kazakhstan “On Public Health and the Healthcare System”. We never share it with your employer, school or relatives without your consent; the only exceptions are those expressly set out by law. For an online consultation your first name is enough, video runs over a secure channel and nothing is recorded without your consent.
Questions and answers
Can we force our loved one into treatment?
Voluntary participation is the foundation of addiction treatment. Involuntary care is possible only in exceptional cases and in the manner set out by the laws of the Republic of Kazakhstan, for example when a person is a danger to themselves or others. Motivational work helps a person reach the decision on their own, and such a decision is usually more lasting.
How many sessions are needed to prepare for the conversation?
Usually one to three online sessions with the family. The time needed depends on the situation, the number of participants and how quickly everyone can agree on a common position. If the situation is urgent, the specialist will help you prepare in a single day and then bring in a narcologist.
Who should be present at the intervention?
People whom the person with the addiction respects and who are ready to speak calmly: a spouse, parents, adult children, a close friend. It is important not to turn the meeting into a “trial” and not to invite anyone who might start shouting. The specialist discusses who should take part with the family in advance.
What if the person lives separately in another district of Almaty?
The family's preparation still takes place online, and the conversation can be held wherever the person feels comfortable — at their home, at their parents' place or by video. The specialist will adjust to your schedule, including evenings and weekends, so you don't depend on traffic.
What should we do right after our loved one agrees?
Act quickly, before the decision cools off. A Psychiatry Online narcologist can join a video call within an hour, come to the home if there is a binge, and help arrange hospital admission if needed. A plan prepared in advance saves precious time.
Does an intervention work for gambling addiction?
Yes, the principles are the same: a calm conversation, specific examples, care and an offer of help. With gambling addiction, financial arrangements are also discussed. Once the person agrees, a psychotherapist who specializes in gambling addiction starts working with them by video.
Where can I be seen in Almaty?
Online — from anywhere in the city or region. In person — at two branches: 129 Kurmangazy St., office 8, Almaty and 110 Bogenbay batyra St., office 15, Almaty. Both are open 24/7; home visits cover all city districts and nearby settlements.
Sources and methodology
This page was prepared by the Psychiatry Online medical editorial team based on:
- International Classification of Diseases ICD-10 and ICD-11, World Health Organization
- Clinical diagnosis and treatment protocols of the Ministry of Health of the Republic of Kazakhstan
- Code of the Republic of Kazakhstan “On Public Health and the Healthcare System”
- NICE (UK) and APA (US) guidelines on the treatment of mental disorders
- WHO recommendations on telemedicine and digital health
This information is for reference only and does not replace a consultation with a specialist. Editorial policy


